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On
Pemba
, almost everybody is Muslim. This said,
the practice of the Muslim faith is of course a local adapted version, with many
traces of other and sometimes older, Bantu African features. Incorporated into
this local Muslim faith is a widespread belief of typical African witchcraft.
Most villagers happily combine the two, in which degree of course varies per
person and per town or village.
Women in Muslim
Pemba
are important, though at first sight are
not very visible. There is a difference between various parts of the island,
between village and town, and even between families. Public life is male
dominated, most outdoor jobs are done by men, and school attendance for girls
drops dramatically after 16 years. Professional skills, securing her of a job,
are hard to gain for a woman. Slowly though, more women are involved in a few
outdoor jobs; cleaning ladies in hotels, the kitchen, some government offices
offer lower jobs, and some foreign NGO’s seek to work with women.
Having stated this poor outlook of women in public life, women in
Pemba
are important. They have the respect of
their men, as they are the one everybody needs to have a home. A clean, well
running home, where lots of children and people need to be looked after. Simple
household chores mean manual labor, this needs a strong woman. A woman is always
a member of a large, economic unit of female relatives who form a formidable
pool of labour, help, and social security. As for public life, women do go to
the market, shop, sell small sweets, baskets and are very good seamstresses, but
you won’t see her selling farm produce, running a shop or selling fish. They
have a background role, but active, more so than
Zanzibar
.
Maybe this is because
Pemba
(see
history chapter) was left to its devices more than
Zanzibar
.
Zanzibar
was under the strong influence of Arab
traders of higher classes, wearing a real buibui, the all black cover for women, turned into a
status symbol in Zanzibar (Stone Town). Today, many women wear this on
Zanzibar
, but much less so on
Pemba
. The Pemban woman wears Kangas, and
always a haircover when outside.
Pemba
also had many ties with the Arab world,
but far fewer settled here, or the lower classes did, with a lot less stricter
appliance. At the end of December, a sudden rise in the number of buibuis can be
seen on the streets; family from the Arab countries come over for weddings and
celebrations of Ramadhan.
With such a network
of world wide family ties, many Pemban women have family abroad, get visitors
from overseas, go there themselves and inevitably have their own experiences. Of
course, a large number of poorer Pembans will never leave island or town, but
still, the international character of families
on Pemba gives the women especially, a much stronger position. Perhaps not in
public, but in private and in their own realms, certainly so.
For the woman coming
to
Pemba
, this all means that a certain dress code
is the most eye catching mark of women. Modest, not showing too much skin, not
too tight or see-through. When coming to
Pemba
, as a woman wear a long skirt or loose
trousers, at least a T-shirt, or a shawl, and don’t smoke in public. When
diving, it is generally agreed that “sportspeople” wear
“sports outfits”, so a pair of shorts or a sarong is ok. But to walk
around in a bikini in the harbour village is a definite no.
We do not check what
you wear, unless we really think it is not done. We count on your own
sensibility.
Pemba
is still very quiet, peaceful and has
almost no “papasi”, those infamous beach-boys who will spot any foreign
woman on her own from miles away. People will come up and say hello, to wish you
welcome or offer you tea. This is a basic Pemban – Swahili thing to do, and
has nothing to do with being a woman. A guest is most important, and that is how
Pembans still regard their tourists: as guests. All we need to do is behave like
one.
As a woman, you will
be approached by men mainly, as they are used to acting in public life. The
women may look shy, and are usually hampered by no knowledge of English, but
will be delighted if you take the first step and greet them, making it easier
for them.
It takes only a little effort to step further into
their world, and any Pemban woman will be happy to take you home to meet her
sisters, mother and children. Be polite, take off your shoes, adore the children
and always accept food: be a good guest!
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